relinquishing control

How many times does something have to occur before it can be referred to as being a habit?

How many times do we have to have incredibly passionate sex followed by cuddling and napping before it's more than just a booty call?

And is it really *just* a booty call when he says things like "I like you 'cause I can talk for hours and you pretend to listen" (I'm not pretending)?

I supposed I'll wait until the pain in my ass subsides before I begin to ponder these questions.